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What do you need right now? 

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Exclusivity talk

“What are we?”

Mixed signals

Timeline / pace

Labels / commitment

Post-date follow-up

Reconnecting after silence

“Are we aligned?”

Unannounced visits

“Jokes” that cross a line

Ex contact

Late-night texting

Privacy / phone boundaries

Social media boundaries

Respect during conflict

“Stop interrupting me”

Rent & bills split

Chores & clean standards

Guests / sleepovers

Alone time / space

Work-from-home rules

Food / groceries

Quiet hours

Trial period plan

Define
us

Define your relationship. Skip the drama.

boundary
pro

Healthy boundaries help relationships thrive.

Cohabitation
Planner

Money, chores, guests, alone time—before it gets messy.

how it works

Step 1 — Choose

Pick the tool that matches your situation.

Step 2 — Generate

Type what’s happening and what you want. Get guides instantly.

“We’ve been seeing each other 6 weeks. I want exclusivity.”

“We act like a couple, but avoid labels.”

“Late-night texts from your ex bother me.”

“Stop the ‘jokes’ about my job.”

“Moving in next month. Worried about chores + alone time.”

“We want to split the rent, bills, and daily expenses.”

Step 3 — Act

Apply your guide to navigate the situation with confidence.

What users say

Maya R.

“After four months of ambiguity, I couldn’t bring myself to ask—afraid the question would scare them away. But using the Define Us tool, it happened so naturally. We’re officially together now!”

Sofia L.

“I’m a classic people-pleaser. In the past, when faced with boundary violations, I’d just bottle up my frustration. Boundary Pro taught me how to assert myself without being submissive or aggressive. For the first time, I realized that setting clear boundaries actually brought us closer.”

Jordan K.

“We nearly moved out after just one week of living together because of household chores. Thankfully, the Cohabitation Planner helped us address potential pitfalls—like schedules and finances—beforehand. Now our home runs smoothly.”