Define Us helps you have the “what are we?” conversation without making it awkward. Share the facts and what you want (e.g., exclusivity, clarity, a timeline, or keeping it casual), and you’ll receive a clean guide that moves things forward—respectfully.

Q1: What should I type?

The facts + what you want. Example: “We’re in the ambiguous phase, and I want to make things official.”

Q2: What this generates?

• The Pulse Check

• The Openers

• The Clarity Question

• The Follow-Up

Q3: What should I do if the other person answers “no” or continues to be vague?

The core goal of Define Us is to help you uncover the truth, not to force a change in their perspective. If they still refuse to label things or remain vague after answering your Clarity Questions, that’s the loudest answer. At this point, the tool’s Follow-up section helps you gracefully establish boundaries. Remember: Getting an honest “no” early is far better than wasting six months in an ambiguous relationship.